How to return the sexual interest of her husband

Sex life is a reflection of our relationship. You need to understand what is happening with communication partners outside the bedroom.

1. He lost interest in sex

His long been captured only sofa, beer and TV, due to age and lifestyle he has changed hormones. He gained weight and avoids not only love relationships, but also any vivid emotional manifestations of life.

What to do? Such behavior often turns out to be an attempt to “seize” fear and anxiety, to compensate for the lack of spiritual warmth, love and attention with the help of alcohol and food. Is this enough in a relationship with you, or does it have to artificially fill the lack of love and warmth?

2. He has a mistress

Although divorce is not included in his plans and you are still dear to him, he lost interest in sex with you.

What to do? Now it is worthwhile to pay attention not to her husband, but to yourself. Do not go into surveillance and comparison with a rival, but, on the contrary, find the strength to release the situation. Neither confidential conversations nor scandals will help. Take care of your career, inner development and appearance, get new interesting acquaintances.

To cope with the situation, you need to break away from it and feel interesting and attractive to others and for yourself. This can return the interest of the partner. However, if by that time you do not need it, then by perfecting yourself, you will only win.

3. He has health problems

In a world that rewards us with stress and eliminates constant physical exertion, even young men face the problem of impotence. In addition, the emotional state of the partner affects sexual opportunities.

What to do? Do not be afraid to raise a sensitive issue. Make it clear that, in spite of everything, he is dear to you, you understand him and are ready to help. Perhaps you should take the initiative to arrange a visit to a specialist yourself.

4. You have ceased to look after yourself

This can happen after the birth of a child, when all attention is paid to a new family member, but often accompanied by other reasons.

What to do? If you are a young mother, do not forget that the man still needs you. To begin with, reconsider your attitude towards the help of relatives, which you could have neglected before. Begin to involve the husband more in cares of the child. Make a plan for the day at which you will have time to take care of yourself.

True, you can give up and not have children. What internal problems can you close with overweight? Sometimes a woman picks it up, avoiding intimacy with a partner. These elusive motifs are revealed on family therapy.

5. He earns less than

He is so crushed by your success that it ceases to feel like a man.

What to do? Ask yourself the question - why did I choose such a partner? Sometimes a woman knowingly goes into a relationship with someone who is inferior to her in the level of education or social ambitions. A man tuned for achievement and inner growth, more self-confident, she may be afraid. If separation happens, it can bring pain and frustration, and the woman lowers the bar of expectations.

When you only raise self-esteem with a partner, you are doomed to live under the guise of imitation of relationships. But if it is dear to you, you need to find a new balance: in personal relationships, you may need to give up the desire for domination and redefine roles in order to remain for each other a man and a woman.

How to return the sexual interest of her husband

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Veronica Stepanova , psychotherapist. Her channel .

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