“I don’t want a husband, I don’t love him?”

If I do not have sexual attraction to a partner, does this mean that I do not like him?My husband and I have been together for five years. For some reason, we never had crazy sex. There is a suspicion that this is my fault. I can not open up, really suffer from it. He has no problems in this area. And I seemed to have ceased to be a woman. If there is no passion, then you do not love the one next to you?

Polina, 25 years old

Polina, there are many varieties of love in which there is no sex: brotherly love, parental love, love of children, love of nature. Therefore, the absence of sexual desire(even in the marital relationship)does not mean that there is no love. Your situation you should not so much understand how to accept.

Do not judge or force yourself. If you don't feel like a woman in your relationship with your husband, who do you feel about?Give free to live and manifest to all that is in you. If you succeed, then gradually these relationships will begin to change, they will cease to be as they are now.

You will cease to suffer, you will no longer be ashamed, you will gradually gain the opportunity to talk with your husband on any topics. You will not need to think about love, because you yourself will become love.

What is sex?Sex is an opportunity to touch, to come into contact with the intimate in oneself and in another person. If you understand sex in this way, then it is(at least as an opportunity)in any kind of love, and therefore, such sex is in your relationship with your husband. You just have to feel it.

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